How to Find the Right Surrogacy Agency: 7 Questions to Ask for Intended Parents

Choosing the right surrogacy agency is one of the most important steps in your journey to parenthood. With so many agencies available, it can feel overwhelming to know which one is the best fit. A surrogacy agency is more than a facilitator, your agency is your partner, guiding you through the medical, emotional, financial, and legal aspects of the process.

To make the right choice, start by asking these 7 essential questions before choosing a surrogacy agency.

1. Is the agency experienced with cases like mine?

Not all agencies have the same background or focus. Some work primarily with domestic surrogacy, while others have expertise in international surrogacy arrangements. Some agencies may specialize in helping LGBTQ+ intended parents or single parents as well. 

You can always ask about the agency’s track record, number of successful matches, and whether they have supported families with similar circumstances to yours.

2. How are surrogates screened and selected?

The screening process is one of the most important steps for surrogates and intended parents. A reputable surrogacy agency ensures that all surrogates meet strict medical, psychological, and emotional requirements.

Parents should look for agencies that:

• Require comprehensive medical screenings.

• Psychological assessments.

• Background checks and lifestyle reviews.

• Provide interviews with surrogates. 

  
  

Knowing whether the surrogate is fully prepared and healthy gives intended parents peace of mind and helps ensure a more successful experience. 

3. What does the matching process look like?

The matching process should be transparent, respectful, and supportive of both the intended parents and surrogate.

As a parent you may want to ask how surrogates and intended parents are introduced, whether you’ll have an opportunity to meet your surrogate before moving forward, and how both sides’ preferences are considered. The best agencies prioritize mutual compatibility and shared values.

At Babymoon, we facilitate match calls between intended parents and potential surrogates, ensuring that everyone feels comfortable and aligned before beginning this incredible journey together. It’s a chance to connect, share your story, and ensure everyone feels excited and confident about moving forward.

4. What kind of legal support is included?

Surrogacy law is complex and varies significantly by state and country. A reliable surrogacy agency works with experienced reproductive attorneys for contracts, parentage orders, and any legal needs.

A reputable agency should give you multiple options when it comes to choosing your attorney. They will not insist on using anyone specific or an in-house attorney, for example. 

5. How are finances handled?

Financial transparency is key in surrogacy. A trustworthy agency clearly explains:

• Agency fees.

• Surrogate compensation.

• Escrow account management.

• What is and isn’t included in the financial agreement.

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At  Babymoon, escrow is managed by a third party ensuring that the distribution of funds strictly follows the terms of the surrogacy contract.

Some surrogacy agencies offer in-house escrow services where the escrow funds are held in accounts owned and managed by the surrogacy agency. While this can be a more affordable option, it poses risks of conflict of interest or misuse of funds.

It is best to make sure that you and your agency are on the same page when it comes to costs as agency fees can vary. Clear financial planning protects both the surrogate and intended parents from any misunderstandings.

6. What support do they offer during the journey?

Surrogacy is not just medical and legal, it’s a deeply emotional journey. The right agency provides ongoing emotional support and clear communication. At Babymoon Surrogacy, for example, every family receives:

• A dedicated Journey Coordinator: Your Journey Coordinator is your point of contact throughout the entire process, ensuring you always have someone who understands your unique journey and can help you navigate medical, legal, and logistical steps.

• Consistent support: Babymoon provides around-the-clock availability so intended parents and surrogates feel comfortable and supported.

• Emotional support resources:Babymoon offers access to counseling and support resources as well as educational tools designed to help both surrogates and intended parents manage the emotional aspects of surrogacy.

  
  

This kind of ongoing support ensures that no one feels alone throughout the process.

7. Can I speak with other intended parents or surrogates?

Reputable agencies often connect prospective clients with former intended parents or surrogates who have completed their journeys. Hearing firsthand experiences builds trust and gives you a clearer idea of what to expect.

However, these agencies will also prioritize the privacy and comfortability of their clients past and present. Meaning, the chance to connect with former intended parents may also depend on their preferences and in respect of their privacy.  

Why Choosing the Right Surrogacy Agency Matters

This is a life-changing journey, and your agency should help you beyond facilitating your experience. The right surrogacy agency offers expertise, compassion, and transparency to help make your path to parenthood as smooth as possible.

About Babymoon Surrogacy

At Babymoon Surrogacy, we pride ourselves on:

• Personalized matching between intended parents and surrogates.

• Legal and emotional support from start to finish.

• Transparent, ethical practices to protect families and surrogates.

• Ongoing communication so you feel supported at every stage.

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Choosing the right agency is the first step toward making your surrogacy dream a reality. Let Babymoon guide you through the journey with trust, compassion, and expertise.

Learn more on our website.

Important: This article is for informational purposes only. Always consult qualified professionals for guidance tailored to your individual situation.